This is where I am today. I do try to be positive here and I do have some other more fun things to write about, and I will, but right now I am just stressed. This stress, I realized today, is making me interpret other things as more negative than they are. I feel ultra sensitive and like a raw nerve.
I know it is normal to feel stress because of surgery. I kind of feel like it’s everything surrounding the surgery that is stressing me, and not surgery itself, but that also makes me wonder if it really is about the surgery.
The one thing I know for sure is that I am thinking too much. Meditation helped some. A snowy walk in solitude helped too. My healthy kale and eggs lunch… not so much! I need a snow day chocolate delivery service. I know it wont fix anything, but the heart wants what it wants. It didn’t help that I started the day with a crazy headache that I can’t seem to shake completely. It’s the weather. I know it is.
Staying in the moment is a remedy I know but it’s just not working right now. I had expectations of my week off from school that are not panning out. Expectations are evil, IMO. Maybe this post is just venting. Maybe I just need to say I feel shitty. I wish this surgery was not happening now. I wish Nick wasn’t up to surgery 14. He’s doing so great but it’s still a lot. Thankfully he remembers only a few surgeries really but some days it feels like it sucks that he has to go through all of it so that he can have two functioning legs for the rest of his life. Sometimes I feel like the whole rest of the world (almost) takes legs for granted. Myself included.
I worry about all the random things that can happen in surgery. I have crazy fears. I don’t care to type them. At some point this will all give way to peace and acceptance. I know it will. This agitation and stress is not my natural state but its my state right now. Maybe just letting it be and not resisting would help… maybe it has.