Moving On

Little by little Nick’s leg is healing. All the pin sites are, which I guess are no longer pin sites are getting smaller. The only issue he is having is in moving his leg in one particular motion. I am thinking of calling Sinai today just to check and see if it is a problem or just something we need to work on with physical therapy.

The removal went so well.  Having the rod put in and not getting a cast as worked out for Nick so far. He is still not full weight bearing and I am having trouble getting him to use the walker. He’s totally willing to use the wheelchair for longer walks but he really wants to be free.

It’s going to take some time before his walking is back to “normal”. I am not really sure what his normal will look like but so far it seems not to be hurting and thats all t he normal I need.

The kids started camp in our new neighborhood last week. There was a giant inflatable water slide for Nick and Charlotte’s group on their first day. Charlotte did not want to do it but Nicholas was so excited. Climbing to the top was really hard for him. Watching him was so emotional for me. It reminded me of the Miley Cyrus song “The Climb” that came out during Nicholas last lengthening. Nicholas took a really long time to climb up. There was a line of kids waiting behind him and none of the kids said anything. I really worried since they had to wait a much longer time for their turns and had less turns than the other group because of Nick but everyone was kind. If an kid complained I did not hear it. I think this really is a great neighborhood, if the kindness of the kids is any indication I feel certain it is a great neighborhood!

The best part was Nicholas and his cheers of pure joy as he went down! All the kids liked it but not screamed like he did. It almost made me cry! He was so happy. I was so scared and happy and proud. Nicholas is such a strong boy. None of this has been easy for him. Moving has complicated things as well but he still putting himself out there and trying.

He hasn’t gone to camp every day so I am not sure how often he will attend but I will be happy if he goes to some days. Yesterday there was not camp but there was a great celebration called Games on the Green, which was mostly races for all ages, some silly races and even dog races. Our crew really wasn’t into the competing but Christopher participated in a bicycle parade with his group from camp and Nick and Steven did the three legged race. They of course were not the fastest, certainly didn’t come close to winning but seeing them out there, seeing Nick just do it was the best. It was a clear sign to me that he is moving on and that the best thing possible for him. Leg lengthening and reconstruction for fibular hemimelia round three is almost completed. Our family made our move and we love our new community.

We’re moving on and it’s bittersweet in so many ways. We already miss friends and family in PA and we’ve only been gone a week. I’ll try to focus on the sweet, get the kids ready for camp and keep moving on.

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